Toddler: 11 tips to help them learn through fun play

by Joost Nusselder Updated on: November 18, 2022

A toddler is a child between 2,5 and 4 years old. During this period, children develop rapidly and this is an uninterrupted process.

Try these tips the next time you play with your toddler and see how even the simplest interactions encourage them to learn and explore the world around them.

Play time is special. Not only is it fun, it is also critical to children's development.

Playing is their 'job' and their way of learning about the world around them.

Through play, babies and toddlers try out new skills, explore their imaginations and creativity and teach them about relationships with other people.

Any activity can be playful for young children, be it driving trucks back and forth or sorting socks.

For example, my son thinks sorting and putting things in containers is one of the nicest things there is.

And each type of game can provide multiple opportunities to learn and practice new skills.

As a parent, you are your child's first and favorite playmate.

From the very beginning of your child's life, he plays with you, whether he is now

• looking at your face while feeding it
• or listen to your voice as you sing to him during his diaper change.

He is working, learning and researching.

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Games to do with your toddler

Boost your child's development and learning by making playtime meaningful with different species spell.

As a parent, it is important to understand the simplicity of early childhood play and facilitate the enjoyment of play.

There are all kinds of games that are valuable for early childhood learning, including:

Constructive play

This is when your child uses their imagination and skill to make something

• a game with dolls
• or build with blocks as game for example.

Constructive play develops problem solving skills, imagination, fine motor skills and self-esteem.

A fun game with blocks is to see who can build the highest tower, although my kid now especially likes to knock my tower over.

Social game

This includes playing with other kids, whether it's an occasional game in the park with another child they just met or a pre-arranged playdate between peers.

It teaches social skills, such as empathy, and broadens your child's world.

Toddlers find it challenging to play with others until they are about two years old, so don't expect them to share and always play well!

See how far your child is and let them try it out for themselves, some children still play for a long time “next to” others instead of with, but that is also a lot of fun and good for them.

Sensory play

This type of play is very common in babies and toddlers and usually involves stimulating the senses with

• tactile,
• movement,
• sound
• and visual experiences.

For example, a fun game is to put toys or other things in a box with a hole in it and let your child feel it. Then they can see what the thing looks like and make the link.

Practice game

Practice game involves repeating new skills so they can be learned.

Business like

• throw
• or stairs,
• to turn,
• hopping

Physical mastery of skills used in sports or games.

Toddlers and preschoolers learn through play and they love nothing more than mom or dad getting up to their level and playing with them.

Just show it off and they will practice with you.

This way you can play with your toddler

So what can you do to get the most out of your child's playtime?

Play constructively with your toddler

• Let your toddler choose the activity or toy.
• Let your toddler start independently and let the game lead most of the time.
• Don't worry about cluttering or cleaning up, just let it go.

See life through your toddler's eyes

• Play on the floor at your toddler's level where you can make eye contact.
• Take the time to take turns playing and talking.
• Make sure your toddler plays and has your focus so you share the playing experience and not just play side by side.
• Accept their manner as also a valid manner.

Give your toddler your full attention

Ai, I still find this tricky man sometimes. To be honest, I always want to secretly check my phone to read a nice dad blog or the latest apps from friends.

But of course they are right.

• Show that you are listening and paying attention to what they are doing by watching and repeating their actions.
• Comment on what your toddler is doing without asking questions or correcting.
• Encourage your toddler as often as possible.

Adjust your language

I'm not one to talk to my son in a high-pitched voice and baby talk, but a little adjustment is really good.

• Use short, simple words to encourage development and understanding.
• Don't argue with what they tell you, repeat what they say to show that you are listening.
• Be very positive, affirmative and enthusiastic in your responses.

Follow your child's lead

Provide an object, toy or activity for your baby or toddler and see what he does with it.

It's okay if it's not the "right" way ... maybe let him show you a "new way" too.

Go slow

It's great to show your child how toys work, but try to put off 'doing it for him' every time.

You can start something like stack one block on top of another and then encourage him to give it a try.

Providing just enough help to keep frustration at bay motivates your child to learn new skills.

Read your child's cues

Your little one may not be able to tell you with words when he's had enough or when he's frustrated, but he has plenty of other ways like

• its sounds
• facial expressions
• and using gestures.

By reading the cues that precede a tantrum, you know when to jump in or go to a new activity.

Reading his cues can also tell you what activities your child prefers.

Look at your play area

• Is the area child-friendly and child-safe?
• Is there too much noise or other distractions?
• Is the area safe to explore?
• Is this a good place for the activity you have chosen now, such as running, throwing balls, or painting?

Checking out your space in advance can help you avoid a tantrum, an accident, or a broken lamp.

Play it again, Dad

While this desire to do things over and over isn't necessarily exciting for moms and dads, it is for their young children.

They practice to be able to take on a challenge.

And when they can do it all by themselves, they are rewarded with a strong sense of their own competence: a confidence that they can be smart and successful creatures.

The more they practice and master new skills, the more likely they are to take on new challenges and continue learning.

So if you're tempted to hide that toy you think you can't play with yourself again, remember the essential role that repetition plays in your child's development.

Adapt play activities to your child's needs

You can be a parent, relative, or caregiver of a child with special needs.

A physical, mental or social disability can occasionally be a challenge to play, and they can be minor things too.

Yet all children learn through play and each play activity can be tailored to a child's unique needs.

The guidelines below can help you think about how to make playtime fun and appropriate for your particular child's skills, preferences and abilities:

• Consider the environment: How do variables such as sound or light affect your child? What is the background noise like in your play area? Is there a television or radio on? Are there many other kids around? If your child seems upset while playing and you've tried everything else, move to a quieter, less stimulating place to play.
• How does your child react to new things: Some babies and toddlers, especially if they have a special need, are easily overstimulated, while others engage in many activities (simultaneously). Try to start playtime slowly, with one toy or object, gradually adding others. See what reactions you get. Does a smile smile when a teddy bear is touched and hugged? Does your child seem startled by the loud noises coming from the toy fire truck?
• How does your child react to different textures, smells and tastes: For example, some objects can be very pleasant for your little one to touch and hold. Others may find them 'funny'. Read your child's cues and adjust the play experience accordingly.

Play with others

It is important for a child to build relationships with peers.

Arrange playdates or look for opportunities for your child to play with other children, such as in the park or during a library reading session, or take him to daycare.

Having fun with peers is an important way in which children learn social skills such as sharing, conflict resolution and empathy and will also help prepare for school.

Joost Nusselder, the founder of Speelkeuze.nl is a content marketer, father and loves trying out new toys. As a child he came into contact with everything related to games when his mother started the Tinnen Soldaat in Ede. Now he and his team create helpful blog articles to help loyal readers with fun play ideas.